Mind book recommendation| Intimacy - Who suffers, who changes？

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Start from the heart

Author: [US] Roland• Miller (Rowland S. Miller)

Translator: Wang Weiping

Publication Time:2015年6月

About the author

       罗兰• Miller (Rowland S. Miller, Professor of Psychology at Sam Houston State University, received a bachelor's degree in psychology from Cornell University in 1973, and a master's degree and a doctorate in social psychology from the University of Florida in 1976 and 1978, respectively。

     Content introduction      

Intimate Relationships draws on the latest achievements in social psychology, communication studies, family studies, cognitive psychology, developmental psychology, evolutionary psychology, sociology, communication studies and home economics, with equal emphasis on research practice and theoretical construction, academic standards and general interest。

The book has a clear structure, strict logic, vivid language, and enlightening thinking. It follows the cognitive law from the simple to the deep, from the general to the special, and discusses the basis, activity form, type, contradiction and repair of intimate relationship。

After reading this book, you will have a new understanding of all aspects of intimacy, such as attraction, love, marriage, commitment, friendship, passion, communication, sex, attachment, mate selection, jealousy, cheating, domestic violence, and more。

Golden sentence sharing

1、Relationships are easier to maintain if both partners have space to store private information about themselves。

The most important thing in intimate relationships is not appearance, not bread, not even loyalty, not giving, but sharing。

3, the best intimate relationship is that the two worlds open the door, welcome each other to visit and play, rather than pulling, let each other become a member of their own world。

4, money can't give you a sense of security, a good job can't, when life is a mess, the only thing that can support you to go on, is a person, an intimate relationship。

5, misbehaving children are not bad children, but frustrated children。When children's needs for belonging and self-importance are not met, they are prone to four main deviant behaviors: attention seeking, power struggle, revenge, and self-exile。

感悟 ：

"Intimate Relationship" is a classic gender psychology monograph, whether you want to fall in love, in love, or have been married, divorced and other states, reading this book will help you understand love relationships, even with friends, colleagues, family。