（供稿 Lu Changshan/ For Lu Changshan)We need to make friends at all times, okay。Friends can help us in many ways. They are a playmate to play with when we are happy, a hole to talk to when we are sad, a strength to move forward when we are depressed, and a direction to move forward when we are frustrated。Whether in life, study, or work, we want to have a better development, we must choose a reasonable social circle, which is crucial。
There may often be people around us who complain about the world, they have a lot of negative energy, often get along with him may also become depressed, which is detrimental to our physical and mental development, we not only to bring positive energy to others, but also to communicate with optimistic people。
Each person's mind is independent, is a database。We need to communicate more with others, and more with thinking people。The mind of a person with ideas is active and beats at all times。People with ideas can create and seize opportunities more easily than ordinary people。Getting along with such people is also extremely beneficial to our own development。
In getting along with others, we must learn to release their own bright spots, use their own strengths, in order to attract excellent people to communicate with us。A person's ability to be good is limited, but a bunch of good people can do earth-shattering things。
In character, we should learn to keep smiling and build an optimistic attitude。There is a saying in psychology that a false thing will come true after a long time。Sometimes the outside can actually affect your inner, keep smiling, you will naturally be happy。It is a good thing to help others, but if it is beyond your ability and affects your time, you must learn to refuse others。Rejecting others is not a bad thing, because once people get used to you being nice to them, it may become what they say"Good old man", this is very unfavorable to our survival and development in a circle。But on the same thing, we must also learn to think in others' shoes, stand in others' position, and be considerate of others' feelings。
In hobbies, if you want to make friends with the same interests, you must study hobbies seriously。Now with the development of science and technology, we can take the initiative to learn through various channels to broaden our horizons and broaden our horizons。At the same time, choose an interest platform, and you can get to know more like-minded friends in an interest area。In terms of interests, people will be happy to make more friends and progress together。Then be brave enough to make your first move when meeting people in this field。Making friends is not a utilitarian thing, competition and improvement coupled with communication and sharing, which will make our life produce a stream of wonderful!
作者：Lu Changshan
Editing by Liu Xianwang
Review: Mingfa Song
