（供稿 Mou Shengrong/ For the photo of Mou Shengrong)社会圈It's a big dye bath. What color does it turn when we touch it。Just like when we are young, we are all a blank sheet of paper. When we are in what environment, we will be affected by it. The accumulated experience and influence will form our own outlook on life, values and world view。This is"Close to the red, close to the black" caused by。So how do we choose effective social circles in this society？
一、Many times, we hope to have a noble person to help themselves, but when they do not have the ability, noble people can not see themselves。At this time, the only way is to improve their ability to help others, and strive to create their own value。When you have a bright spot, whether it is your character, or your ability to be recognized, when you encounter opportunities, there will naturally be someone willing to take your own。
二、Engage in positive social activities。For example, we can try to run a marathon and meet positive people。People who love sports are generally people who have high demands on themselves, and they pursue an active and healthy lifestyle。People who pursue a positive and healthy lifestyle have always been cheerful, their language is positive, and they are all action-oriented and willing to pay。Exercise is meaningful and a healthy lifestyle can help us build a positive attitude。
三、Establish a good image, treat people sincerely, and socializeDisplay in circleOwn value。People who have high standards for themselves will pay attention to their image。A good image is not to wear expensive clothes, wear big-brand shoes, but to have clean and tidy hair, dress appropriately, and speak and act in a manner that reveals self-restraint and atmosphere, no穿Fancy dress. Pull it down社交Circle of image and hierarchy。In social circles中Can continue to create value, pay more, naturally will gain a lot。When you create value for the group, there are many grateful people in the group, will not unilaterally accept your help, they will find a way to return to you, may be a message, a wealth creation opportunity, or a high-quality network。In short, good people are willing to pay in the circle, because they understand that the more they pay, the more they gain。If there is a person who only knows how to take and does not want to pay, everyone will reject and stay away from him。
四、When we determine the areas we want to expand, we should not blindly make friends。By KeithFarage once wrote a book called "Don't Eat Alone", he is very good at networking, creating his own high-quality social circle, and later became a social adviser to Clinton and Hillary Clinton。He proved by personal experience that he should not eat alone, but walk around with people above his own thinking level, make dinner with them, participate in various activities, and improve his vision and pattern。
Review: Mingfa Song
